William C. Rhoden (June 1, 2009), A Handshake Is Not Too Much to Ask, Even From a King, work: The New York Times
• James answering why he refuses to shake hand with Dwight Howard.
• James answering why he refuses to shake hand with Dwight Howard.
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It’s hard for me to congratulate somebody after you just lose to them. … I’m a winner. It’s not being a poor sport or anything like that. If somebody beats you up, you’re not going to congratulate them. That doesn’t make sense to me. I’m a competitor. That’s what I do. It doesn’t make sense for me to go over and shake somebody’s hand.
— LeBron James
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This is a placeholder explanation generated by the low-overhead model. It interprets "It’s hard for me to congratulate somebody after you just lose to them. … I’m a winner. It’s not being a poor sport or anything like that. If somebody beats you up, you’re not going to congratulate them. That doesn’t make sense to me. I’m a competitor. That’s what I do. It doesn’t make sense for me to go over and shake somebody’s hand." in the context of "William C. Rhoden (June 1, 2009), A Handshake Is Not Too Much to Ask, Even From a King, work: The New York Times
• James answering why he refuses to shake hand with Dwight Howard." to mean that wisdom is timeless.
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About LeBron James
LeBron Raymone James (born December 30, 1984) is an American professional basketball player for the Los Angeles Lakers of the National Basketball Association (NBA). Nicknamed "King James", he was a three-time "Mr. Basketball" of Ohio in high school, and was highly promoted in the national media as a future NBA superstar while a sophomore at St. Vincent – St. Mary High School. He was selected with the number one pick in the 2003 NBA Draft by the Cleveland Cavaliers. He was named the NBA Rookie of the Year in 2003–04, was named the NBA Most Valuable Player in 2009, 2010, 2012 and 2013, and has been both an All-NBA selection and an All-Star every season since 2005. A four-time NBA champion (2012, 2013, 2016, and 2020), James is widely considered one of the greatest NBA players of all-time.
About LeBron James
LeBron Raymone James (born December 30, 1984) is an American professional basketball player for the Los Angeles Lakers of the National Basketball Association (NBA). Nicknamed "King James", he was a three-time "Mr. Basketball" of Ohio in high school, and was highly promoted in the national media as a future NBA superstar while a sophomore at St. Vincent – St. Mary High School. He was selected with the number one pick in the 2003 NBA Draft by the Cleveland Cavaliers. He was named the NBA Rookie of the Year in 2003–04, was named the NBA Most Valuable Player in 2009, 2010, 2012 and 2013, and has been both an All-NBA selection and an All-Star every season since 2005. A four-time NBA champion (2012, 2013, 2016, and 2020), James is widely considered one of the greatest NBA players of all-time.
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